What does Faith based and Christian Counseling mean to me?

I personally believe a person’s faith can give us strength and guidelines to live better and more effective lives. As a faith based/ Christian Counselor my ethics dictate I should not try to impose my beliefs on you as a client and i should respect your beliefs. The only exception I would personally make would be if I felt your beliefs are harmful to you or another, in such case I would suggest you seek counseling from someone else.

My background is based on Christian beliefs and I went so far as to spend two years working on a Masters of Divinity degree before obtaining my Masters in Counseling degree. That is not to say that I am not comfortable or unwilling to work with persons of other faiths. In fact I have done extensive study and reading to better understand what other faiths teach. I often ask others from different backgrounds to explain to me what they believe and their understanding of how this applies to their current situation.

A good example of how this works is when working with couples and families I like to work from the assumption of what makes a family work is to treat each other with love as defined as the following:

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
1 Corinthians 13 (NIV)


This should be a bench mark by which how a family treats each other should be measured. I often at, least internally, question what someone means when they say they love someone where neither one of them are treating the other this way. I will ask them what their love means. Too often it is base only on an emotional warm feeling. We all know these  warm feelings can come an go.

By Mark L Smith, LPC, LCSW

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My Office Location

12600 E US 40 Highway, Suite 101

Independence, MO 64055

My office is conveniently  located on 40 Highway near Crysler.

Near by cities include Blue Springs, Oak Grove, Raytown and Lee’s Summit.

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